ok i lied. one more post. because not too many people read this and because no one likes a bitchy person on facebook, i'm just going to put 3 questions that i am sick of being asked. and i can do this because i'm pregnant. if you've asked me these questions, don't feel bad (well, do but only for like a minute). if you haven't asked them, don't. i'm also putting how i would like to respond to people instead of being polite.

1. "have you thought about adoption?" have you thought about what would happen if i punched you in the face? just kidding, but really since i'm almost 31 and have a college degree and have lived in another country, i think i can do a better job than those girls on "teen mom". in other words, i'm keeping MY baby, so shut up.

2. "why didn't you use birth control?" really? are you really asking me that? because the answer to that question will accomplish so much.

3. "are you sure, maybe in some subconscious part of your brain, you didn't sort of want to be pregnant?" and then this is when i have to decide between breaking their arm or poking out their eyes.

so anyway, the moral of the story is think before you ask a pregnant woman stupid questions.

big news

well, i've reached the end of my mexican adventures -- rather abruptly. this will probably be my last post on this blog, and it's simply for informational purposes.

most of you probably know by now that i'm pregnant. 20 weeks today -- exactly halfway through the pregnancy. it's a super long story which includes an almost shotgun wedding. things fell apart in a matter of days, and my boyfriend decided he didn't want to be with me anymore. my mom came down to mexico and helped me pack my things and move back to the states. i'm living in arkansas again and trying not to get overwhelmed at the thought of being a single mother. i haven't heard from my exboyfriend in two months, and i have no idea if i'll ever hear from him again.

so that's the short version of the story. i should find out in a few days if my baby is a girl or a boy. i'm due on july 12th.

so yeah, my life is pretty different now, and i guess my mexican adventures are over. here's to a new set of adventures. . .